God Transforms Challenges into Opportunities


I was horrified some months ago to find that there were rumors online and subsequently out in the real world too, alleging that I am a victim of domestic violence. It was perplexing to me that someone could actually sit down and fabricate such a thing and take the time and energy to push such malicious lies… And yet someone did, with plenty of energy and determination. I have no idea what the motivation of this person was but I can tell you this, what goes around always comes around. Vengeance is mine sayeth the Lord.

Leaving the matter of retribution in the hands of my Lord, I nevertheless had to deal with intense annoyance and irritation at the whole thing. It was also very hurtful to see my hubby have to suffer the tag of wife beater, when he actually treats me like a flower. It was also upsetting to imagine that girls who look up to me could fall for the whole story, and mistakenly conclude that perhaps being battered is not such a big deal.

Let me be clear. Battering is extreme abuse. It is criminal. No certificate gives anyone the right to do inflict harm on another. It is unacceptable. Period. There are no excuses. I know plenty of single parents bringing up children and I am sure that a child would rather grow up in a safe environment with less privilege and money, than in a wealthy but violent and loveless home. Children need love and stability, the damage inflicted by a violent environment far outweighs other considerations. As for me, I would never accept any form of physical or emotional abuse from anyone. I respect myself and have always expected those around me to do the same. I wish the same for every woman, man and child.

However, after being annoyed for a while I started to see the silver lining… Yes indeed, the silver lining. Because when life hands you lemons, you must simply get into the business of making lemonade. I started to see my blessings even more clearly. I looked at my hubby and appreciated even more the patient, strong and amazing man that he is. He was unshaken, and we resolved to remain positive and focused. I then looked at my potential to address the situation and realized, because it had never affected me directly, the issue of violence in the home was never a priority for me. But now a passion had been stirred by someone who had nothing but bad intentions.

As a result, I am speaking out on this issue more and more, to girls, to women, to boys and to men and I am working on ways to spread the message that peace, respect and love in the home, means peace respect and love in society. Violence and hate in the home means violence and hate in society. We must decide to live our best life and leave a positive legacy. After all, our time on this earth is so short.

Judas may have betrayed Jesus but God used his greed and evil intentions for the greater good. God turns challenge into opportunity, and gives you the chance to turn that opportunity into a blessing – thank you Lord for giving me the opportunity to make a difference. Each time you face a challenge, remember to ask yourself where the opportunity lies – i believe that you will find that our awesome Lord will give you the chance to turn it around for the greater good.

I’d love to know, have you ever had a challenge that God changed into an opportunity? If so, please do share your story :)

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6 Comments on "God Transforms Challenges into Opportunities"

  1. Rodgers Meitekini says:

    And you can preach! Awesome and devotional! May God continue increasing you in all ways!

  2. elnorah mkawaindi says:

    whoa!thats so touching Julie.powerful great woman of GOD.bless u.

  3. Julie you have my prayers,such mortals should not weigh you down.

  4. Peris says:

    At MCN dinner thank you for sharing your life with me. Its not easy being a strategic Christian in this world of today but i am going to use the ugali, beans n bullets strategy. Al keep you posted on how it goes.
    Ave got a good feeling about this strategy.
    Am going to make my own form of honest tea.

  5. Chet says:

    Wow!!! Julie u r all round. I admire u as woman, mother, wife as a professional but above all a God fearing person. Its a blessing to succeed in so many fields.

  6. Margie Muga says:

    This has given me so much perspective :-) God bless you

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